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@rough_draft_rob ·

Budgeting app that survives an ADHD brain: what made it stick for you? Stuck / Can't Stick With It

I've started and abandoned four apps in three years and the pattern is identical every time. Two great weeks of categorising everything, then a missed week, then 300 uncategorised transactions and I never open it again. Money isn't tight exactly, it's that I have no idea where it goes and that stresses me out. I don't need optimisation, I need something I'll still be using in six months.

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  • @coast_fi_casey · last wk. · 2 replies

    Automate the part that requires no decisions and stop tracking the rest. Separate account for fixed bills, standing transfer on payday, and whatever's left in the day-to-day account is spendable. I stopped categorising entirely three years ago and my finances improved, which is not what any budgeting app wants me to say out loud.

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    • @adjunct_life · last wk.

      This is what finally worked for me too. The apps sell insight, and what most people actually need is a wall between money that's committed and money that isn't.

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  • @weekly_review_wes · last wk. · 3 replies

    The fix for me was cutting categories from about 40 down to 7. A backlog only feels overwhelming because each sorting decision is hard, and it's hard because 40 options is a genuine cognitive load. Seven buckets, one of them called other, and a month of backlog takes four minutes instead of an hour.

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    • @rough_draft_rob · last wk.

      Seven categories with an "other" I'm allowed to abuse. That might genuinely be the unlock.

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    • @late_stage_phd · last wk.

      And you can always split "other" later once you notice it's 30% of your spending. Starting granular is the trap.

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  • @xlookup_lena · last wk.

    I'd gently push back on the framing. Four apps in three years isn't failure, it's four experiments. What did each one actually break on? If it's always the same point, the backlog, then any app will do and the fix is the workflow, which is what everyone above is telling you.

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  • @napgapnora · last wk.

    Notifications rather than sessions. Set it to push you a balance every morning and stop trying to schedule a weekly review, because the review is the thing that gets skipped and skipping it is what creates the backlog in the first place. Passive awareness beats an abandoned ritual.

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  • @exdiv_eli · last wk.

    Whatever you choose, switch off every feature you don't need on day one. Investment tab, net worth graph, goals, all of it. Each one is another surface quietly asking for maintenance you didn't agree to.

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  • @kitchen_table_talk · 7d ago

    Something nobody mentions: pick the one that opens fastest. Sounds trivial, but a three-second cold start is enough friction to lose me on a Tuesday, and I'm not being dramatic about that.

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