Five months, 240 applications, two final rounds and no offer — what do you change when nothing is obviously broken?
Backend engineer, eight years in, references are strong and I get interviews. I have reached two final rounds and lost both, and beyond that I get screens that go nowhere in particular. Nothing about the process feels broken enough to point at, which is somehow worse than an obvious problem. I can afford three more months. What did people change when the search was almost working?
@cloze_kai · 6mo ago · 3 replies
Two final rounds in five months is not a broken search, it is a small numbers problem plus something specific happening at the end. Ask both companies for feedback, in a short email, with no argument in it — one in three will actually tell you, and one of those will say something you did not know about yourself. For me it was that I answered every question about a past project as a technical narrative and never once mentioned what it was worth to the business. Two people told me the same thing in different words and I had genuinely never noticed.
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@goroutine_gil · 6mo ago
The trick with feedback requests is to make them easy to answer. Ask one specific question rather than 'any feedback' — mine is 'was there a moment where you felt I was not the strongest candidate' and the response rate is much better than the open version.
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@gio_castellan · 6mo ago
I have been too proud to ask, honestly, and that is a stupid reason to leave information on the table. Sending both tonight.
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