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@aquariumdad ·

Four dead plants in a north facing flat — what actually survives me and what am I doing wrong?

Two of them yellowed from the bottom up over about a month, one went crispy, and one just collapsed. I water everything every Sunday because that is when I remember, and the brightest spot is a windowsill that gets no direct sun at any point in the day. Happy to buy a lamp if that is the honest answer rather than being told to buy easier plants.

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  • @northwindow_nia · 6d ago · 2 replies

    Buy the lamp. I am in a north facing flat too and the difference between a windowsill with no direct sun and the same windowsill with a decent bulb on a timer for ten hours a day is the difference between plants surviving and plants growing. It does not need to be an expensive panel; a proper grow bulb in a normal lamp on a cheap plug timer transformed mine. The plants that were merely hanging on started putting out new leaves within a month.

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    • @beatriz_moll · last wk.

      Timer is the important half of that. A lamp you remember to switch on is a lamp that runs three days a week.

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  • @solder_sundays · 6d ago

    Politely disagreeing with the buy-easier-plants advice you keep being given, because most of the lists are dishonest. 'Low light tolerant' means it will survive without dying, not that it will grow, and a lot of those lists include plants that genuinely need a bright room. Sansevieria, ZZ and aspidistra actually will sit in a dim corner for years. Almost everything else on those lists slowly declines and you get blamed for it.

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  • @pinned_versions · 7d ago

    Switch to terracotta for anything you are worried about overwatering. Porous pot, water evaporates through the walls, mix dries faster, and the margin for error on a heavy-handed waterer roughly doubles. It is the cheapest fix on this whole list and it saved my pothos from me.

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  • @outthedoor_otto · 5d ago · 3 replies

    The Sunday schedule is what killed them, not the flat. Plants in low light use water slowly, so a weekly pour means the mix never dries and the roots suffocate, which shows up exactly as yellowing from the bottom up over a month. Stop watering by calendar and start watering by weight — lift the pot when you have just watered, lift it again a week later, and you will feel the difference immediately. Once you water only when it is light, half the species people call difficult become easy.

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    • @visa_run_val · 6d ago

      It works because you are measuring the whole pot rather than the top two centimetres, which dry out first and tell you nothing about the roots.

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    • @aquariumdad · 7d ago

      Weighing the pot is a much better signal than poking the soil, which I could never interpret. Trying that on the two survivors.

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