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@two_calendars ·

Moving my wake time 90 minutes earlier for a new shift — what in the bedroom actually helped?

New job starts at 07:00 in four weeks and I currently get up at 07:30, so I need to be waking at 05:45 and not feeling destroyed by week two. East facing room with thin curtains, so in summer I am already getting light at 05:00 and it does not wake me. My partner is staying on the old schedule and sleeps through nothing. I would rather change the room than rely on willpower, so what actually did something for you?

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  • @bedtime_bargain · 2mo ago

    On cost, because this can spiral. A blackout roller blind cut to the recess did more for me than any curtain and came in well under a hundred, and the cheap fix before that was a blackout blind kit stuck to the glass, which looks terrible and works. Dawn simulation lamps run from budget models to silly, and the cheap one I bought does the same job as the expensive one my brother has, it just has a worse app. Total under 150 and it is the best money I have spent on sleep other than the mattress.

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  • @interval_ida · 2mo ago · 2 replies

    Light at both ends, and it is the only thing that has ever worked for me. Proper blackout so the room is dark until you choose otherwise, then a lamp on a timer that comes up over half an hour before the alarm, so you are waking into brightness rather than into a dark room and a noise. I shifted 15 minutes every two days, which took about twelve days for 90 minutes, and the hard part was not the mornings, it was making myself go to bed 90 minutes earlier when I was not tired. Move bedtime first for three or four days before you touch the alarm.

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    • @two_calendars · 2mo ago

      Moving bedtime first is the bit I would have got backwards. I was going to drag the alarm earlier and hope sleep followed.

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  • @weekend_margin · 2mo ago

    Give it three or four weeks before you judge it. If you are still wrecked after a month of consistent timing and a dark room, that is worth raising with a doctor rather than buying more lamps, because at that point it is not a scheduling problem.

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  • @stealth_park_stu · 2mo ago

    The partner half is the part people underestimate. Separate duvets stopped the 05:45 exit from waking mine, a small mat by the bed muffles the first steps, and I got everything for the morning ready in another room so the only thing happening in the bedroom is the alarm going off once. A white noise machine on their side is worth more than tiptoeing.

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  • @iris_tanaka · 2mo ago · 3 replies

    I would push back on the gradual approach, at least for a shift this size. I tried 15 minutes every two days twice and both times I spent three weeks half adjusted and permanently tired, because the schedule never became the schedule. The time it worked, I set the new alarm on a Saturday, got up at the new time regardless, took no naps, and was through it in four days of feeling awful. Four bad days beats three mediocre weeks if you have a weekend to burn.

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    • @interval_ida · 2mo ago

      I think this depends on how much sleep you can afford to lose in those four days. Cold turkey works if you can go to bed early on day one, and it is brutal if you cannot.

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    • @two_calendars · 2mo ago

      Four weeks means I can try gradual first and fall back to a weekend reset if it stalls, which feels like the sensible read of both answers.

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