Two separate problems and it is worth fixing them in order, because the second one is caused by the first.
The drag is the blade and the angle. A razor pulled through dough at ninety degrees is trying to part it, and wet dough is sticky enough to follow the blade instead. What you want is a shallow angle — close to thirty degrees to the surface — and one confident, fast stroke. At that angle you are cutting a flap rather than a trench, and it takes far less force.
Depth matters too: for an ear you want a cut about half a centimetre deep, not a scratch. Shallow scores are the most common cause of no ear at all.
The blowout at the side is the loaf finding its own weakest point, and that happens when your cut did not give it a better one. The dough expands hard in the first minutes; if the score is too shallow or dragged and closed up, the pressure goes wherever the crust is thinnest — usually low on the side where the dough met the banneton.
So the sequence to fix: deeper cut, lower angle, faster stroke. When the cut is doing its job, the loaf opens there because that is genuinely the easiest path, and the side tear stops happening on its own.
One practical note: a razor blade on a stick is the right tool, and it must be sharp and clean. A blade with dried dough on it drags no matter what your technique is.