The softer-metal explanation is nonsense as stated. Disc material varies between manufacturers and applications, and it does not sort neatly by continent, and "softer metal" is not a reason a disc would need replacing at one pad change rather than two.
A disc will normally outlast two or three sets of pads, sometimes more, depending on driving and on the pad compound. Replacing them at every pad change is not a rule anywhere.
What genuinely justifies replacement is measurable rather than rhetorical:
- Thickness below the minimum. Every disc has a minimum thickness cast or stamped on it. Measuring with a micrometer takes a minute and is the definitive answer.
- Excessive lateral runout or thickness variation, which cause pulsing under braking. Also measured, not guessed.
- Deep scoring, cracking, or heat damage.
- A lip at the outer edge deep enough that new pads will not seat properly.
Ask for the measured thickness and the manufacturer's minimum. A workshop that has actually inspected them can give you both numbers immediately.