Genuinely a coincidence, and a good one, because the two words come from completely unrelated places.
Meth- traces back through "methyl" to a compound obtained by heating wood, and the name was built from Greek roots meaning roughly wine and wood — wood spirit, what we now call methanol.
Eth- comes from "ether", the volatile liquid, itself from a Greek word for the upper air. The two-carbon fragment got named after the substance chemists were already working with, and "ethyl" was coined for it.
So one name comes from wood and one from air, they were coined decades apart by different people for different reasons, and the fact that removing one letter turns one into the other is pure accident of transliteration.
The giveaway is exactly what you noticed: the pattern stops immediately. Propane comes from a fatty acid name, butane from butter. Only from pentane onwards does the system become systematic, using Greek number roots — pent, hex, hept, oct. The first four names are historical debris that the system inherited and never cleaned up.