For question 2, the reason high temperature feels unfocused rather than differently focused is that it does not promote one alternative — it promotes the entire tail at once.
At any given position there are usually a handful of good continuations and a very long tail of tokens that are grammatical but wrong, plus a longer tail of tokens that are simply noise. Squashing the gaps hands probability to all of them together. Most of that mass lands in the tail because the tail is enormous, not because any individual tail token became attractive.
And the damage compounds. One odd token changes what the model is now continuing, so the next choice is made from a slightly worse position, and so on. That is why high-temperature text tends to drift rather than simply contain one surprising word: you are not sampling a different sentence, you are sampling a different sentence given the drift so far.
Which is also why top-p or top-k alongside temperature works so much better than temperature alone. Truncating the tail first means raising the temperature redistributes probability among candidates that were all plausible, and you get variety instead of decay.