Have you tried just increasing terminationGracePeriodSeconds? That usually sorts out slow shutdowns.
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Eighth year, chemistry, dissertation submitted and waiting. I know more about leaving academia than staying in it at this point.
Simplest answer is to remove the memory limit entirely, then it cannot be OOMKilled.
Sounds like a relationship direction thing to me, try setting the cross filter to Both and see if the blanks fill in.
"The total is its own question" reframed the whole thing for me. I had been assuming a spreadsheet model where the bottom row is arithmetic on the rows above.